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"Do you remember those
winter clothes I asked you to store for me?"
Gayle Buchanan told Trinh Phan
that she did.
"Would you ship them to
me?" the Vietnam native asked in a recent telephone call
from Texas. "My husband and I are moving to Korea in January."
Gayle and Don Buchanan, '56
and '58, were host parents for Phan, '95, while she was a student
at Berea. And, as it is for many of the nearly 80 families who
participate in the College's Host Family Program for international
students, contacts with the students don't necessarily conclude
at commencement.
"The program helps Berea's
international students adapt to a new environment," Ed FitzGerald,
who advised foreign students for 22 years, explained. He noted
that the activity is community based with both College and Berea
community residents serving as "families away from home."
Dorie Hubbard, a Berea resident
and chair of the Host Family Committee, agrees that the main
focus "is to make international students feel comforable
here and to help them adjust.
"Many of these students
had never been out of their country before coming here," she
noted.
The exact year the Host Family
Program began is not recorded, but
its roots extend to the 1960s
when former Academic Dean Kenneth Thompson was advising international
students. Rose Ramsay, '52, wife of retired College Vice President
William Ramsay, also '52, said Dean Thompson and his wife, Verna,
asked her to coordinate the program when Dr. Thompson neared
retirement.
Rose became coordinator in
1971 and saw the program grow from 30 families to 60 shortly
after FitzGerald became foreign student advisor in 1977. Now,
there are 78 families hosting 105 students from 67 countries.
The current totals are the
greatest in the program's history, according to Alina Strand,
who became the College's foreign student advisor last May. Every
international student who wants to be associated with a host
family is provided with one, she said.
Overall, there are more than
120 international students at Berea. They include (1) those who
are non-U.S. citizens, (2) refugees and (3) dual citizens (U.S.
and another country). Berea's international students usually
represent about five percent of the total enrollment. They also
must meet the same need and low-income provisions required of
American applicants and must be capable of reading and writing
English at the freshman college level.
Matching students with host
families, a summer activity, is one
of the most difficult tasks
of the program, Strand said. In some
situtations, matches don't
always work, Hubbard added, which means that reassignments must
be made.
For the most part, however,
the benefits of the program are good for both students and families.
The Buchanans, who have been a host family since 1968, find the
experience very positive.
"We've learned so much
about different cultures and religions and the experience helped
our children learn how others live and what the necessities of
life really are," Gayle related.
Marlene, '61, and John Payne,
'62, who have been host parents for 20 years, have found that
each host family "brings something unique and special" to
the student relationship. Mary Kay, Nursing '74, and Mike Johnson,
'73, who have hosted as many as seven students at one time, have
found more cultural similarities rather than differences where
their students are concerned. Since 1988, the Johnsons have hosted
students from 11 countries.
Depending upon schedules, there
are a number of things hosts and students do together. These
include meals, family outings, shopping trips, birthday parties
and get-togethers during holidays. Some families have hosted
their students' families, and visits and correspondence have
continued many years after the students have left Berea. Bill
Ramsay once was asked by a Malaysian student that he and Rose
had hosted if he would give the bride away at her wedding. He
did.
Wati Mastriyana (center), sophomore
business major from Indonesia, enjoyed a snack at Woods-Penn recently
with her host parents. Dr. John and Marlene Payne have been active
in the Host Family Program for 20 years.
But some events can be grim.
Such as the student who was told by her Chinese parents shortly
after the 1989 Tiananmen Square protest not to communicate with
them as their lives might
be in jeopardy. Recently, Mike
Johnson was available for a student who abruptly learned that
his father had died in Great Britain. And Dave and Sherry vandellen
were quick to comfort their African student who was notified
that her father was a war victim in Rhodesia (Zimbabwe).
With Berea's commitment to
international students increasing, the Host Family Committee
continues to look for new hosts. And, Hubbard emphasizes, a financial
commitment is not a condition. It's more important just to be
available for students.
"Any family interested
in hosting a student should contact Alina, the committe or me," Dorie
said. "Even those who might be interested in participating
for a short time -- such as during a holiday season -- are welcome."

Dorie
and Tom Hubbard are host parents for Dewi Lestari (left), junior
business major from Indonesia, and Hoa Nguyen, junior mathematics
major from Vietnam. The students joined the Hubbards on a recent
shopping trip at the Appalachian Arts and Crafts shop in Berea.
Host families continue to make
a difference in the adjustment of international students to a
new country, a new life and a new educational experience. A Greek
student once related that adjustment -- from negative to positive
-- as she discussed her first 24 hours on campus.
"I arrived at Berea in
the middle of the night and was taken to James Hall," she
told host parent Gayle Buchanan. "It was so dark and I was
so scared and I remember wondering why the walls of my room were
black.
"But," she smiled, "I
awoke in the morning and the walls were white."
Foreign Student Advisor Alina
Strand (left) and Dorie Hubbard, chair of the Host Family Committee,
keep in contact concerning ways in which the program can benefit
international students. Karolina Letunova (right), a sophomore
business major from Russia, lends a hand with some of the paper
work.
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