| Living
the Leadership Life
Picture this:
… a small town anywhere in the world. You are a member of this community.
The people of this town have decided to appoint you as their leader. Ask yourself:
- Why me?
- What leadership qualities would they see in me?
- Who would follow me?
- What would happen if others lived by my example?
- What kind of difference would I make in this community?
Almost eight years ago, I began asking these questions
within a leadership development program I called, The
Search for Excellence. Somewhere in the middle of
that first summer of the leadership program, my students
renamed the course, The Journey
to Excellence. Yeah, sure you search for better
ways to live life they told me; but the bigger picture
is that it should be a journey in
which we do the searching, a journey to become excellent
human beings. It’s not just a blind search for something
either—it’s a journey of learning to see beyond
the surface layers. Little did they or I know at the time
that the word leader actually comes from an Old English
word “laedare” which means “to take with
one”; implicit therein is the journey: change, movement,
shared leadership, direction, community. This interaction
with them has stayed with me all this time and it continues
to be one of my favorite leadership lessons.
The concept of leadership has been defined in myriad ways
throughout human history and the leadership canon is deep
with metaphors, formulas, stories, equations, and countless “ten
laws of leadership to live and work by”. For me,
leadership has become, not just a job, a task, or a set
of skills to be mastered, although there are those, but
a way of life. Leadership is both personal and communal,
local and global; it can be learned no matter who you were
at birth. We all lead and allow others to lead us, in the
classroom, at the lunch table, in our place of worship,
on the flag football field, going about our everyday lives.
We all are, on some level, leaders if leadership is to
be understood as the process of becoming an excellent community
participant.
I think of the leadership life in two realms, personal
and interpersonal—what I call Intramural and Liturgy.
The term intramural is most often equated with sports
activities like football or soccer. In fact, the word,
in translation, means “within the walls.” Good
leaders live the examined life with the knowledge that
leadership is more than image. One of my favorite poets,
Eudora Welty, and as one who lived well, says, “All
serious daring starts from within.” Often omitted,
but just as important, is the preceding line, “Even
those who have lived a sheltered life can be daring; because
all serious daring starts from within.” Similarly,
I hear myself repeating the tenet that you can’t
lead others unless you can lead yourself, meaning, people
must reckon with themselves (their own history, patterns,
choices) before, alongside, and after their endeavor to
mobilize and inspire others. Looking inward is where the
daring begins. The Journey to
Excellence, more than just the name of a program,
has been my personal and continuing journey towards being
a leader who is able to respond to the principle that my
organization is a product of how I think and interact.
The process of personal innovation for me IS struggling,
listening, debating, supporting, leading, being led by,
watching, and learning from my students and colleagues
toward shared aspirations with change being implicit. I
have learned, first with myself, that most people don’t
resist change; they resist being changed.
And we often times overlook the value of small but deep
change we are able to affect and waste our time looking
for earthquakes. The leadership development process can
be transformational if self-understanding is the prelude.
But, that’s not all. Leadership is more than character.
All the integrity, energy and good intentions in the world
will not hide poor performance. Without clear and visible
results imbedded deep within the system of a community,
leadership can’t endure. Ask yourself every day,
what is the evidence of my life lived well? What is the
measure of my leadership success?
Leadership is also liturgy. This term has become absorbed
over time into church language but its roots bring us to
the leadership partner of intramural. The world liturgy
was born from the Greek, leitourgia,
meaning public service. Besides its intramural aspect,
leadership lived well is also liturgical, or, the work
of the people. Any leadership program worth its salt can’t
be a panacea, a formula, or a blueprint. It can and should
be a foundation for a way of life and is often times just
plain hard work—work that belongs to all of us and
is for the good of the other. Sometimes this calls us to
find ways to facilitate someone else’s leadership
journey instead of always competing to keep our individual
objectives out in front. Doing this kind of work well means
turning what we know into what we do—in our labor
position, with our classmates, on the basketball court,
as a son, sister, as a teacher and a learner. It means
learning how to balance personal integrity with the common
good—searching out and acting on what is necessary
for the growth and vitality of a community. I am constantly
amazed at the level of willingness and commitment I see
in this campus community for liturgy. I have observed a
gradual change in the nature of relationships between professional
staff and students—less hierarchical bureaucracy
and more collegial thinking, less leadership by title and
more delegation according to knowledge and skill. I see
a campus culture slowly progressing from one of distinct
divides between teachers and learners to one of shared
teaching and learning roles. I see students who are more
confident in their ability to make connections between
learning and doing, create relationships that are transformational
rather than transactional, make connections between their
in-classroom and out-of-classroom learning, and see the
broader meaning of leadership to include being an excellent
community participant. Naïve you say? Idealistic?
Perhaps. However, my picture of the future is one in which
all of us have the opportunity to re-invent ourselves,
to become the people of excellence we all are capable of
becoming. The work of closing the gap between our actual
and our potential is one that we all have a stake in and
a journey that resonates with all of us. Are you dreaming,
you say? I hope so. When was the last time you were inspired
to your core by “I have a business proposal” instead
of “I have a dream?”
So, the leadership life is both intramural and liturgy,
a journey to excellence that will last, presumably, for
a lifetime. I’ll leave you with this challenge: If
you build yourself, you will build your community and
your community will build the world.
Jessica A. Gerassimides
Labor Program Associate/
Journey to Excellence Leadership Development
(859) 985-3734 or (859) 985-3611 CPO 2180
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